Our God designed our brain to be formed and flourish with healthy relationships. It is a core of defining who we are and what we need throughout our lives. Once I treated a little girl who had been incested by an uncle. She was blessed by the unusual circumstance of having a … Continue reading
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It was all so sudden. He had the barrel of a gun pressed into the side of my head. He made me lie face down on the floor of our master bedroom. He demanded to know when others in the household were due to be back. Frantically I raced in my mind to think of an answer, all the while only thinking of … Continue reading
The Church’s Weinstein Moment: Nailing Some Theses for Assault to the door of the Church

“Silence can be a sickness that grows like a cancer in your soul. And it is well past time for the church to face it: Culture is having its Weinstein, cleaning house moment — and if the church chooses to be a safe house for predators instead of victims, God Himself will bring down every […]
Continue readingA Second Compelling Invitation To Faith Leadership

Wow! I just returned from England. While jet lag is still hanging around, I am so grateful to have had the opportunity to go with Road’s Scholar and learn about the Lake District; Beatrix Potter and the poet Wordsworth land, as I call it. Then, to Northumberland to stand and touch Hadrian’s wall. I was […]
Continue readingOne Lie That Seems Comfortable to Believe; Time Heals All Wounds

I really believe in the 4 R’s of recovery of sexual assault. I have lived and am living on this Unintended Journey. I have worked with hundreds of clients. I have extrapolated the sequence of this Unintended Journey through the above as well as being trained. When I was an intern, I had a supervisor […]
Continue readingOne Outrage Is Spurring Hope

After I was raped I lived in PTSD for months with the rapist as my backyard neighbor. He was out on $250,000 bail in 1982, a huge sum then. It took months for a conviction and sentencing; not for my case, but the one he was out on bail for. I went to his sentencing. […]
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